Love and respect the elderly, a privilege to embrace

In our fast-paced and ever-evolving world, it’s easy to overlook older people’s invaluable contributions and wisdom. However, by extending our love and appreciation to the elderly, we can foster a more compassionate, empathetic, and harmonious society. It is crucial for us to explore the importance of cherishing and respecting older generations and how doing so can lead to a better world for all and therefore we celebrate the ‘International Day of Older Persons ’ that falls every year on the 1st of October.  For example, my frail grandmother celebrated her 99th birthday recently, and with that age, she still has a sharp mind and always has a very witty character when talking to us.

In a world that often celebrates youth and vitality, it is essential to pause and reflect on the immeasurable value that our elderly citizens bring to society. As the saying goes, “Love and respect the elderly; it’s the highest privilege to be at old age with lots of experience, as not everyone will go through it.” These words hold profound wisdom, reminding us of the invaluable treasure that is the collective knowledge, experience, and resilience of our senior citizens.

Old age is a phase of life that not everyone has the privilege to experience. It is a journey marked by the passage of time, filled with joys and challenges, and enriched by the accumulation of wisdom. The elderly among us have witnessed decades of history, adapting to changing times and circumstances. Their stories are a living testament to the human capacity for resilience, adaptation, and growth.

One of the most remarkable aspects of aging is the vast repository of experience that seniors carry with them. They have weathered storms, navigated life’s twists and turns, and emerged stronger and wiser. Their experiences provide valuable life lessons, guidance, and perspectives that can benefit younger generations in countless ways.

Moreover, the elderly are the custodians of our cultural heritage and traditions. Through their stories, customs, and rituals, they pass down the rich tapestry of our history and heritage. By preserving and cherishing these traditions, we ensure that our cultural identity remains vibrant and alive for generations to come.

The elderly also play a pivotal role in family dynamics. Their wisdom, guidance, and unconditional love often serve as the bedrock of family unity. They are the living encyclopedias, the storytellers, and the pillars of strength upon which families rely during challenging times.

In addition to their invaluable contributions to family and society, it’s crucial to acknowledge that growing old comes with its own set of challenges. Health issues, loneliness, and feelings of isolation can often accompany the aging process. This is where our collective responsibility to care for and respect the elderly becomes paramount.

Ensuring that the elderly are treated with love, dignity, and respect should be a shared commitment. There are several ways we can demonstrate our appreciation for the elderly:

  1. Spending quality time with them: Engage in conversations, listen to their stories, and create lasting memories together.
  2. Providing support: Offer assistance with daily tasks, medical care, or transportation when needed.
  3. Inclusion: Include elderly family members in social gatherings and activities to combat isolation.
  4. Acknowledgment: Recognize their achievements and the wisdom they have gained over the years.
  5. Advocacy: Advocate for policies that improve the quality of life for seniors in our communities.

Loving older people means standing up for their rights and advocating for their well-being. This includes supporting policies and initiatives that promote affordable healthcare, safe and accessible living conditions, and protection against elder abuse. A society that cares for its elderly is one that recognizes the intrinsic value of every individual, regardless of age

In conclusion, the privilege of growing old is a gift that not everyone receives. We must cherish and respect our elderly citizens for the invaluable contributions they make to our families and society as a whole. Their experiences, wisdom, and love enrich our lives in immeasurable ways, reminding us that aging is a journey filled with unparalleled beauty and significance. By honoring and supporting our senior citizens, we ensure their twilight years are filled with the love and respect they rightly deserve.





Associate Professor Dr. Siti Noor Fazelah Mohd Noor


Centre for Communication Research Centre

Universiti Tun Hussein Onn Malaysia (UTHM)